American
culture permeates the media, but an extended stay in the United States
reveals more subtle, day-to-day conventions of U.S. life. Individuality
Individual liberty is one of the values Americans hold most dear. The U.S. Constitution guarantees religious freedom for all American citizens and visitors, and in general diversity is celebrated. Americans are quick to speak out when they disagree with the government, organizing protests and writing letters to their local representative. Discussions about religion, politics, and other controversial topics are acceptable.
It might surprise you that young people in the United States choose their own career paths and spouses. They also express their individuality through music and clothing. On college campuses, it's common to see men and women with body piercings, tattoos, unconventional hair colors, and outlandish makeup.
The Land of Opportunity
The United States calls itself the land of opportunity. Many Americans believe that anyone can “pull himself up by his own bootstraps”—that is, achieve one's goals through hard work and self-reliance. Celebrities like Oprah Winfrey are revered for having gone from “rags to riches”—creating wealth and prestige though she was born poor. People often work overtime in order to provide necessities and luxuries for their family.
Nevertheless, Americans generally are cooperative and enjoy helping others succeed. Many people, especially students, help the less fortunate through donations and volunteer work.
Efficiency
Because of the emphasis on achievement, Americans value efficiency. To save time, people may eat while driving, and busy professionals often have lunch at their desk. People's schedules, even those of children, are packed with classes, meetings, and social activities. Therefore, punctuality is important; if you agree to meet someone for lunch at noon, then you're expected to show up precisely at 12 p.m., not at 12:15 or 12:30.
Entertainment
Americans don't just work hard; they play hard, too. On weekends, they enjoy movies, sporting events, and other forms of entertainment. Many families have multiple television sets; some even eat dinner in front of the TV in order to avoid uncomfortable silences.
Family Values
Although people might move away from their hometown for college or work, extended families typically get together on Thanksgiving and major religious holidays. Many college students check in with their parents at least once a week by phone, and colleges hold special events such as Parents Weekend and Little Siblings Weekend, during which family members visit.
To learn more about U.S. culture and social customs, read this report from EducationUSA.
